Overcome self-sabotage & overwhelm.
Find inner clarity and inner calm.

who we work with

On this page you’ll find descriptions of the types of people we work with (and what these people do to ensure their success).

You might be a great fit for us if you experience one or more of the following:

  • You’re overwhelmed and need clarity; you experience overwhelming emotions (including self-criticism and self-doubt) and want clarity in yourself about some way to actually address the more fundamental problem of inner peace (and fulfillment).

  • You feel that you’re doomed to repeat the same “mistakes” or “failures” in trying to find peace, and you aren’t sure how to break these cycles. You want to stop sabotaging yourself.

  • You get overwhelmed easily and need calm: stress is becoming unmanageable and is affecting your life adversely. You know you need to commit to finding inner calm but you’re suspicious of techniques that claim to magically improve your life overnight.

  • You want to be happy but you can’t seem to enjoy any kind of lasting happiness.

  • You feel that you should be fulfilled but aren’t, and you’re not sure what to do about it. Perhaps you’ve experienced success in some area(s) of life, but your anxieties remain.

  • You have spent a tremendous amount of attention (and energy, time, perhaps even money) trying to fixing some material problem that you think was the cause of your unhappiness and:

    • you’re​ still trying to solve your problem and are tired of investing in methods that promise magical solutions. You now feel that you need to confront your problem directly. (You may also have a sneaking suspicion that solving it won’t produce as much happiness as you think.)

    • you’ve solved your problem and realized that solving it didn’t produce the lasting fulfillment you thought you would receive.

  • You want to maintain your dignity as you confront your struggles.

  • You realize that (1) something has to change, (2) what has to change is you, and (3) the change has to happen right now.

You will be a great fit for us if you are ready and willing to take action in one or more of the following ways:

  • You’re willing to look closely at yourself. You are willing to learn about those parts of yourself that you’ve neglected or avoided, and are ready to finally face your overwhelming emotions, uncomfortable feelings, negative thoughts, etc., and own up to your desires with courage and awareness.

  • You are willing to look at the ways that you may have been responsible for your own limitations, including your self-sabotaging behavior. You’ve realized that change is impossible if you’re convinced that life is happening to you. In other words, you are willing to develop clarity about yourself and your unconscious habits so that you may become more empowered.

  • You are open to trying something new (and perhaps counterintuitive) that may make your current ‘self’ uncomfortable, but you understand that changing your life means changing yourself in some important way(s)—even if it means experiencing discomfort.

  • You’re committed to experiencing a better relationship with yourself: greater self-acceptance, self-compassion, and self-love (without becoming selfish), and you understand that your quest for perfection (material, emotional, intellectual, etc.) actually reinforces your sense of emptiness rather than frees you from it. You are committed to cultivating inner peace and making this a long-term priority in your life (instead of just managing discomfort or looking for a magical solution to fix your problem for you). In other words, you are committed to learning about how to become a more spiritually connected person with more spiritual self awareness (whether “God” is involved or not).

  • You’re willing to reconnect with your natural inspirations (which have been obscured by the demands of life and/or abandoned in the quest for status/money/love, etc.). 

You would not be a good fit for us if you are looking for one or more of the following:

  • an astrological prediction about if or when you will have, do, or be something you desire or fear.

  • a decision to be made for you about something.

  • 100% certainty that some commitment will be fruitful (because you assume that you would be able to make this commitment if only you were certain it would work).

  • something that can make you permanently happy (including an astrology reading/program).

  • a ritual or metaphysical or magical solution that will instantly fix a worldly problem you are currently experiencing.

  • tactics to “manage” (or suppress/eliminate) your overwhelming emotions, intrusive thoughts, anxieties, rumination, etc.

  • a guru who will provide you with approval and/or grant absolution.

  • a cure for a medical and/or mental health condition.

  • an explanation of the meaning of planets and signs in your birth chart (as opposed to directly confronting the problems/suffering in your actual, lived experience).

  • an introduction to astrology or hypnosis or yoga (i.e., you’re looking to satisfy some curiosity).

 A limited number of professional birth chart readings and self-awareness compatibility readings will be made available each month  because Balrāj is focusing his efforts on his one-on-one program helping people transform self-sabotage and overwhelm into profound inner clarity and deep inner calm (so they can feel more grounded, empowered, and connected with themselves). To see if this program is a fit for you, schedule a free Clarity Call with Balrāj or learn more here.